People warned me about you and how you were. I never really paid attention to warning signs though.
- I’m starting to wish I did
Even at your best you will never be right for the wrong person.
Hard Feelings/Loveless // Lorde
“I will never understand how people decide to get up and just leave. How do you go from telling someone their importance and meaning to you one week and avoiding them the next? Did you actually mean what you said, or were you just lying like everyone else?”
tips on how to get over a breakup:
- don’t talk to them at all. block them and delete their contact info.
- remove all the things that remind you of them (pictures, gifts, etc)
- accept that you need to move on
- distraction helps in moments of extreme distress
- don’t push your emotions away. you need to face what happened.
- denial won’t help
- accept that it happened, and that you can’t do anything about it
- take your time, but don’t wallow forever
- seek the support of your friends and family
- identify your emotions to figure out how to deal with them
- rebounds aren’t a good idea
Everybody leaves, don’t get attached.
“Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake and help us see we are worth so much more than we’re settling for.”— Mandy Hale
“letting go of you was painful. I will never forget the way you made me laugh or the way you set my body on fire with the slightest touch. but I also have to remember how you stabbed me and kept pushing the dagger in deeper with no regrets.”— you loved me once but not again (the art of letting go)
“How long they choose to love you will never be your decision.”— Drake; Thank Me Now
“You get depressed because you know that you’re not what you should be.”— Marilyn Manson (via quotemadness)